When You Pray: Making the Lord’s Prayer Your Own
by Philip Graham Ryken.
P&R Publishing, 206 pages.
ISBN 1596380527
Prayer is one of the most basic elements of the Christian life, and one of the most neglected. One of the difficulties we face is that we do not feel as though we know how to pray.
The Lord himself, however taught us just how to pray. In Matthew 6 and in Luke 11, Jesus taught his apostles (and us) a model for prayer that is remarkable for its combination of both simplicity and depth.
Phil Ryken, senior pastor of Tenth Presbyterian Church in Philadelphia, walks through each part of the Lord’s Prayer in great detail.
He begins by examining the first part of the Matthew passage, before the Lord’s Prayer even begins, to show us how not to pray like hypocrites. Observes Ryken,
The problem with these hypocrites was not what they did, but why they did it… Are you a hypocrite? One way to tell is to compare the amount of time you spend in private prayer to the amount of time you spend in public prayer.
He then illustrates Christ’s next example of bad prayer in a chapter wonderfully titled “How to Pray Like an Orphan.” Ryken’s premise is that pagans, both ancient and modern, pray like orphans - not knowing the love of the Father, or the confidence that He will hear them or provide for them.
Knowing God as Father has two tremendous implications for the life of prayer. First, it means that you can keep it simple; second, it means that God will give you what you need almost before you ask… In the whole history of the world, God has never once been surprised during a prayer meeting.
After this introduction, Ryken spends the bulk of the book walking through each phrase of the Lord’s Prayer, meditating on the full meaning and implications of each one. It is easy to see that he has spent much time not only praying the Lord’s Prayer, but also praying about the Lord’s Prayer.
This is not an instruction manual for prayer. Instead, it is a reflection on the wonderful glorious prayer that Christ himself has given us. The purpose of the book is not primarily to teach us how to pray like the Lord did, but to use His prayer more effectively. Read this book, and you will never pray the Lord’s Prayer casually again.